tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post8738722625839119900..comments2023-10-01T05:53:43.041-04:00Comments on Gifts from a Broad: My Big Gay PostThe Lady Who Doesn't Lunch:http://www.blogger.com/profile/16435708079953998705noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-14841800378552249662011-02-15T19:28:36.556-05:002011-02-15T19:28:36.556-05:00Ok, so it's easy to troll your 'chives bec...Ok, so it's easy to troll your 'chives because you have that coolio "here are my most important posts" section or whatever you call it. Anyway, HAD to read this one when I saw the title. Doesn't matter if he's gay or not -what's important here is that you go out of your way to help make it a friendly place for the gays (no matter how, um, unusual your approach may be) and for this we thank you.Coaster Punchmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12587366749348273040noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-804039070870409242008-07-22T06:51:00.000-04:002008-07-22T06:51:00.000-04:00you know what, there's this guy I went to dinner w...you know what, there's this guy I went to dinner with, I thought he was gay. but then he kissed me and he is very heterosexual. very strange and confusing. You are a total riot. nice to see you again!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-8445561130947676182008-07-21T23:30:00.000-04:002008-07-21T23:30:00.000-04:00A lot of my parent's friends were gay, so I had ga...A lot of my parent's friends were gay, so I had gaydar before I even knew what it was. When I lived in San Francisco, almost all the guys who worked with me at this one restaurant were gay, and they treated me like their little sister. It was so sweet and safe...Until one of them hit on me and it hadn't even occurred to me until then that any of them could have been bi. Duh.Churlitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05018288474865559384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-43206140929894016842008-07-21T20:37:00.000-04:002008-07-21T20:37:00.000-04:00I have given up trying to pick them these days. T...I have given up trying to pick them these days. <BR/><BR/>This guys smokes Newport Lights...he's gay<BR/><BR/>Does he live alone with his two cats named after any given Broadway characters?<BR/><BR/>Maybe he is throwing up a chick beard just to mess with you. maybe he feels you have gotten too close.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-12583072310338830002008-07-21T18:50:00.000-04:002008-07-21T18:50:00.000-04:00Pistols - Well this town IS very religious. There...Pistols - Well this town IS very religious. There are 3 bible colleges within spitting distance from my house. <BR/><BR/>Del-V - I have that too only I call it "wig-dar", cause in addition to toupees, I can spot wigs and extenstions from a mile away too. I usually don't go around winking and flirting with these people however.The Lady Who Doesn't Lunch:https://www.blogger.com/profile/16435708079953998705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-41007804548608724142008-07-21T08:49:00.000-04:002008-07-21T08:49:00.000-04:00I have toupee-dar. So I don’t know if you are str...I have toupee-dar. So I don’t know if you are straight or gay, but I know if you are wearing a hairpiece.Del-Vhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10177208284239709601noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-45248967701912238452008-07-21T07:29:00.000-04:002008-07-21T07:29:00.000-04:00I don't ever really notice, but it's because I don...I don't ever really notice, but it's because I don't ever really care. Maybe he's been cured by Jesus?paperback readerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05200353078639769169noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-75634748441094179592008-07-20T21:02:00.000-04:002008-07-20T21:02:00.000-04:00Player - From now on only at you kiddo.Player - From now on only at you kiddo.The Lady Who Doesn't Lunch:https://www.blogger.com/profile/16435708079953998705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-74900889157314666712008-07-20T15:48:00.000-04:002008-07-20T15:48:00.000-04:00lol maybe he lives in the 1950's. is that possible...lol maybe he lives in the 1950's. is that possible? i think it is. <BR/><BR/>but as a gay man, i think you shouldn't be a geek about it. no more winking HAHA.-https://www.blogger.com/profile/05215282549913888007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-69414955841059135262008-07-20T12:02:00.000-04:002008-07-20T12:02:00.000-04:00Dan - you'd be surprised, but you're right, most o...Dan - you'd be surprised, but you're right, most of the gay folk I've met here are very low key and NEVER come out at work.<BR/><BR/>dmarks - Hi and Thanks! I've been away but posting like mad while my husband is out of town. I need to catch up on yours too!<BR/><BR/>Skydad - I can only hope that he thinks I've got a facial tic.<BR/><BR/>Gwen - I will restrict my "cavorting" to the gays from now on to only those who are card carrying and have been officially confirmed.<BR/><BR/>Answer: Yes I did. In fact was on the horn with him within 10 minutes of reading your post. He said something. Things transpired. Bingo - your sign is down. <BR/><BR/>Linka - I'm still in shock so the only thing that I think is that I will limit my interaction with him to my normal professional unflirtiness.<BR/><BR/>Tara - my gaydar is usually spot on, but I have been wrong before.<BR/><BR/>Alice - I just don't know anymore.<BR/><BR/>RenWoman - yes, but that is the whole point of my crazy flirting - to let him know that I know that he's gay and that I'm OK with it. Now he probably just thinks I'm over sexed.<BR/><BR/>Michelle - I've never said so here on my blog, but I really think that my best friend Amy's ex-husband Assface is secretly gay. He has always sent my gayar shooting off the charts. I think the denial of it is why he is such a miserable assface.<BR/>Amy thinks so too, so it must be true.<BR/><BR/>Wendyb - my only saving grace in this situation is his interest in my co-worker.<BR/><BR/>Fawless - I'm not sure anymore, but we'll see. I was totally joking about the Newport Lights BTW.The Lady Who Doesn't Lunch:https://www.blogger.com/profile/16435708079953998705noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-44897017538709908252008-07-20T02:02:00.000-04:002008-07-20T02:02:00.000-04:00I'm not sure why it is important for me to get thi...<I>I'm not sure why it is important for me to get this message across. Pehaps because I'm in the awkward position of being passionate about gay rights without actually being gay.</I><BR/><BR/>I've never really known how best to express my raging passionate opinions and involvement with the gay community and gay rights before, since people understandably look at me and wonder, "But isn't she straight?" When I read your second sentence, I just totally connected with it.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, I have three or four people (okay maybe five) that I know of where my gaydar goes off instantly. They may all be married with children, but I'm not buying it.<BR/><BR/>I say he's gay.Falwlesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10188835254714411124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-89657400601582997402008-07-19T22:47:00.000-04:002008-07-19T22:47:00.000-04:00Yeah, I had a problem with flirting wildly with an...Yeah, I had a problem with flirting wildly with an "obviously" gay guy just for the fun of it, only to find out he wasn't gay. He was also very difficult to get rid of after all that flirting.WendyBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00985099019783464580noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-66190148372276238282008-07-19T22:15:00.000-04:002008-07-19T22:15:00.000-04:00Sounds like my brother-in-law. I don't care that ...Sounds like my brother-in-law. I don't care that he's married with 2kids and lives in a nice big house in one of the top 3 places to live in America. My gaydar still goes off. Not that there's anything wrong with it.Quiet onehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15331808415683305902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-67848841299071570372008-07-19T22:12:00.000-04:002008-07-19T22:12:00.000-04:00Well...maybe it is trying to throw you off because...Well...maybe it is trying to throw you off because he doesn't want anybody to know that he is gay. Maybe he hasn't embraced his gayness. Or maybe he just wants to see if you will continue to flirt, wink and entertain him. I'll vote...he is gay.Renaissance Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16958178544581250567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-37278769845140552342008-07-19T20:24:00.000-04:002008-07-19T20:24:00.000-04:00He's bi.I think.He's bi.<BR/><BR/>I think.Alicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02312731015432167519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-18970879587969931702008-07-19T17:28:00.000-04:002008-07-19T17:28:00.000-04:00Perhaps he's on both teams? My gaydar didn't kick ...Perhaps he's on both teams? My gaydar didn't kick in till after college. During college, though, I had a huge crush on a guy in Spanish class. Then one day while talking to a friend, he came up with another guy and told my friend "Did you hear? We're engaged!" Huh! Surprise!<BR/><BR/>As Seinfeld says, "Not that there's anything wrong with it!"Tarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16103812856035857566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-52450046507383440912008-07-19T16:00:00.000-04:002008-07-19T16:00:00.000-04:00Oh Lady, I just luuuv the gays too!! Much to the c...Oh Lady, I just luuuv the gays too!! Much to the chagrin of my older, ultra religious and conservative co-workers. You should have seen their faces the day I asked if any of them had heard of "fisting"..oh.the.hilarity.<BR/><BR/>Maybe your co-worker is Bi..ya think??Linka72https://www.blogger.com/profile/12318724136535263434noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-58187554344494103632008-07-19T15:31:00.000-04:002008-07-19T15:31:00.000-04:00"he sounds" not "sounds sounds"Sorry!"he sounds" not "sounds sounds"<BR/><BR/>Sorry!Gwenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09100388190136741782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-75223221050322444632008-07-19T15:30:00.000-04:002008-07-19T15:30:00.000-04:00I don't think you're alone in the "confused" depar...I don't think you're alone in the "confused" department as sounds sounds very similar to one half of my favorite boy couple.<BR/><BR/>I feel a certain ownership of the gays, too, and cavort just as ridiculously around them.<BR/><BR/>Question: Did you say anything to YDH about the billboard? Because they changed it on Thursday. It was spooky. I'm impressed by the power you wield so effortlessly.Gwenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09100388190136741782noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-21997136501595403312008-07-19T14:56:00.000-04:002008-07-19T14:56:00.000-04:00Maybe he is on to you and is just trying to mess w...Maybe he is on to you and is just trying to mess with your head!SkylersDadhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18264164502733912326noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-89789390094791877012008-07-19T14:37:00.000-04:002008-07-19T14:37:00.000-04:00Belated Happy Birthday wishes too. I see I have a ...Belated Happy Birthday wishes too. I see I have a lot of posts to catch up on reading.dmarkshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07269773990064736457noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7963432418989382127.post-44432768884277255742008-07-19T14:03:00.000-04:002008-07-19T14:03:00.000-04:00That may be as gay as people are allowed to get in...That may be as gay as people are allowed to get in Grand Rapids.Danhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10557932331658823137noreply@blogger.com